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Winner Kid - Words of Motivation

Words of Motivation from a VERY Motivated Little Boy (and Some Art Linkletter too)!

Winner Kid - Words of MotivationSometimes the most amazing words of motivation come out of the mouths of little kids. Also some of the funniest things!  I’m old enough to remember Art Linkletter on his TV, “House Party,” where he had a panel of little kids that he spoke to. Sometimes – and as chronicled in his book Kids Say the Darndest Things – the kids would come out with some of the most hilarious lines!

I used to absolutely LOVE “House Party,” and in the accompanying videos, you’ll see why – I’ve given you a look at Art Linkletter, including a short video tribute with Bill Cosby that will blow you away. He was a very loved man, not only in the entertainment industry, but in my own house growing up as well. Regrettably, the world lost Art Linkletter in May of 2010 (he was 97 years old!)…

But, for the moment, I would like to share with you an absolutely WONDERFUL video of a little boy who recently overcame the challenge of riding a bicycle. When you hear him speak, you will be able to feel his enthusiasm rub off on you. And so, my friends, take this youngster’s words and joy into your own lives today!  Enjoy this motivational and uplifting video! Thanks for visiting!

Little Boy Motivates the Whole World!


By the way – in case there is any doubt as to the impact Art Linkletter had on our world, please enjoy the following 2 videos!

Art Linkletter tribute with Bill Cosby.

The Best of Art Linkletter’s Kids Say the Darndest Things, vol 1.

My Friend Jared Elvidge

Special Internet Marketing Education Series! Meet Jared Elvidge!

My Friend Jared ElvidgeI am absolutely THRILLED to announce that an internet marketing education project I’ve been working on for a couple of months is now complete!

Folks, as you probably know, I am very involved in internet marketing – and I am especially interested in spreading HIGH QUALITY information when it comes to internet marketing education.

In fact, I have been receiving numerous requests to bring more “self development for entrepreneurs” to the site – and I cannot ignore my readers’ requests!

As it turns out, over the last 6 or 8 months, I have become acquainted with a gentleman by the name of Jared Elvidge. Now, until I was in a course with Jared, I honestly had not heard his name before in the internet marketing education circles.

But, anyone who is a serious student of internet and affiliate marketing will soon be VERY aware of Jared.

Jared is not some self-proclaimed “marketing guru.” In fact, I’m guessing that when he reads this post – which he will! – he will proabably ask me to not even USE that term in the same paragraph with his name. 🙂 But, we’ve all heard the term.

With Jared’s permission, I posed a LOT of questions over the course of a few months. I had become so enamoured of his professionalism, helpfulness toward EVERYONE who reaches out to him, his integrity (there’s that word again! I must have people of integrity in my life), his values, and his genuine nature – that I just had to get to know him better.

As I did, I felt an impossible-to-ignore desire to write about him.

Please join me in my journey… The series of interviews I am about to share with you is quite lengthy. It’s in 5 parts, actually. I just could not cut anything out.

As you get to know and learn from Jared, you will soon find out why he is sure to become one of our most beloved internet marketing education professionals.

Please continue to the article here => Internet Marketing Education – and Integrity in Business and Life: Jared Elvidge

Social Media Can Affect Your Career

Can Social Media Affect YOUR Career? YES!

Social Media Can Affect Your CareerIt’s no longer a matter of IF the use of Social Media can affect your career, it’s a matter of HOW it will affect your career.

Although I truly did think that most people were already well aware of how the misuse of Social Media could make or break a job application or even threated the job itself, it appears that a lot of folks still aren’t taking it seriously.

Surely by now we’ve all heard of the terrible injustices done to this or that waitress or waiter who “tweeted” something negative about a customer or boss or whomever and then lost their jobs. I’m sure that people feel passionately one way or another about it.

As someone who has worked for many years with people – younger and older – about career choices, applying for jobs, development resumes and cover letters, and coaching them in preparation of their job interviews – I feel compelled to chime in on this topic.

It was after reading a variety of “tweets” and Facebook updates that made me think, “Wow, this person has no idea how he/she looks right now… I sure hope his/her boss isn’t seeing this on line! How embarassing!”

So, in the interest of doing my little part in bringing a friendly reminder to job seekers to be careful what they tweet and otherwise write about, I bring you my article on how Social Media Can Affect Your Career in my Career and Job Resources section. Please read – and comment – by Clicking => HERE.

Learning New Skills Can Help You Set and Achieve Goals and Objectives

Fifty Skill Challenge to Help Set and Achieve Goals and Objectives

Learning New Skills Can Help You Set and Achieve Goals and ObjectivesI was just over at a self development forum, and was very intrigued by one of the member’s ideas for giving himself a “50 skill challenge,” which sounds like a great way to help set and achieve goals and objectives

This forum member, who goes by the user name of “Mounds” stated, “I can make you a guarantee with this challenge. If you walk into it and learn 50 skills in a year, you will walk out a better, more developed person. How can you not?”

What a brilliant concept! I always temper big goals or objectives with one of my favorite sayings by Carl Schurz (paraphrased):
“Ideals are like the stars. We may not reach them, but like the mariners on the sea, we chart our course by them.”

In Mounds’ case, he talks about some skills being more simple (and therefore easy to chalk off the list) – such as “learn to change a tire.” Certainly not a difficult skill to learn – and also one that would always be helpful to know.

He then mentions adding skills that present a bit more of a challenge, such as “Learn origami.” Or “Learn how to salsa dance,” or “Learn…website related skills.”

This is where I thought about categorizing and prioritizing the skills I might target for myself. Thinking about some of the examples Mounds offered, I could quickly determine that as cool as it might be to learn origami or salsa dancing, I honestly don’t see myself using the skill very often. First, John just simply does not like to dance. 🙂 And, origami might be useful for an art teacher – but, not really for me.

So, I thought about how this type of challenge would work best for someone like me. As I mentioned to Mounds in his thread, I’d probably give thought to what my OVERALL goals are for the year (or whatever time frame I’d consider for this).

What am I trying to accomplish this year?
There are a few things that come to mind right away.

For example, I would dearly love to sell our house – but we don’t know of any realtors who are using the type of marketing that we feel could really help. Putting the house on the MLS is fine – but what ELSE could bring attention to our home?

So, thinking in terms of the goal to sell our home this year, I instantly think of “video marketing” and “social network marketing.” To the best of my knowledge, the agency with whom we had the house listed last year didn’t do any of this. If they did, we weren’t told of it.

So, what skills would be required for me to bring myself closer to my goal? Here are some of the things I came up with that one might need to learn:

  • Learn how to sign up for YouTube
  • Learn how to record a video on the free “Movie Maker” tool that came with my computer
  • Learn how to make a Fan Page on Facebook to market the house
  • Learn how to stage a house for photos and showings

Then, once these skills are learned, I could build my objectives (targeted action steps) toward the goal, based on using these skills. For example:

  • Prepare each room for photos
  • Take photos of each room
  • Arrange photos in Movie Maker and add captions
  • Complete the movie and publish on YouTube
  • Create the Facebook Fan Page and add the video

So, as a result of this exercise where I learned some new skills, I also naturally find myself moving towards my goals.

It’s certainly an interesting concept – and one that I think would be a lot of fun to work on. It’s just a little twist on achieving goals and objectives.

And, at the end of the year, I’d walk away having learned at least a FEW new skills – which is an accomplishment in itself!

In the meantime, I’ll let you know if I really do anything like this to help sell our home!

(2014 Update – the forum I talk about is no longer available; therefore, I removed any links to it)

Learning from Popular Self Development Teachers

I have always enjoyed learning from various popular self development teachers. I can be at a yard sale, and can spot a personal development book like an eagle spots his next meal from 1/2 mile up in the air.

Even if it’s a self development author I don’t particularly resonate to, I find myself picking up the book anyway. I can’t seem to help it!

There are times when I seem to pick up a book, and wonder, “What the heck am I doing with this thing? I am not a fan of his…” But I now realize that in almost every single book I find, I also uncover at least a small nugget of gold.

Here’s an example.

A couple of months ago, I found some books by Dr. Phil McGraw. Now, I confess that I had NO IDEA as to who Phil McGraw really was except that he was associated w/ Oprah Winfrey. But, I bought the books anyway. And lo and behold – as I sat down to read through some of the book, I found myself amazed at a story he told about a time when Oprah was being sued by some Texas cattlement for comments she had made pertaining to Mad Cow Disease around 1998. Evidently, Oprah just could not understand the obvious injustice of the attacks on her.

And her preoccupation about the injustice of it all was weakening her spirit. And, in order to face this multi-million dollar lawsuit – just or injust – she needed to be 100% present for it.

So, what struck me was Dr. Phil’s insistence that Oprah look at her situation realistically – and of course, this means we ALL look at our situations realistically. Instead of bemoaning “why” things are happening to us, he illustrated that we accept our situation and DEAL with it.  I thought about the times I have spent in my life wondering, “How can this be? Why me? What did I do to deserve this?” etc.

But when I read Dr. Phil’s words that day, it really struck me as to how much time I have wasted in my own life, thinking of things that cannot be changed by worrying or stressing or avoiding them.

A nugget.

So, as it turns out, there are  numerous gold nuggets in that book, and I’m holding onto it for now.

We can all learn from others. I feel fortunate to have stumbled onto many wonderful resources that I enjoy sharing. If you would like to see a little more here on my blog, including a list of author events from Hay House authors that you might enjoy, please see the article here: Hay House Author Events

Or… For the Most Up-to-Date Events and Lectures by Your Favorite Self Development Authors, CLICK HERE
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On Giving and Receiving as Inspired by Charles F Haanel and The Master Key System

On Giving and Receiving as Inspired by Charles F Haanel and The Master Key System

On Giving and Receiving as Inspired by Charles F Haanel and The Master Key System

One must be able to Receive as well as to Give

I was inspired to talk a little about the concept of Giving and Receiving after reviewing Part 4 of The Master Key System by Charles F. Haanel.

I really love to give gifts. For some reason, I love the whole action of thinking of what someone might enjoy, and then going through the process of procuring the gift.

And the gifts I give aren’t always of monetary or material value – sometimes they involve food. 🙂 For example, when I was growing up, every Christmas season I would don a little red & green plaid pinafore that I used as an apron, and start baking chocolate chip cookies.

I made DOZENS of these chocolate chip cookies. Then, I would carefully arrange them on paper plates, and walked over to various neighbors’ houses and give them all away (well… ok, I kept a FEW for our own family).

I had so much fun doing this. I never did it with any expectation of receiving anything back. The warm feeling I had inside my heart always seemed to be enough.

Even though I’m not a kid anymore, I still do this! Even down in South Carolina where I am wintering as I write this post, I did it. I am staying in a condominium complex where there aren’t a lot of residents, I have gotten to know the staff here. So I baked for all of them!

Anyway, I wrote a little bit on the topic of giving and receiving. Please click here to read my article => On Giving and Receiving as Inspired by Charles F Haanel and The Master Key System I hope you enjoy the article!

Overcoming Procrastination is CRITICAL if you want to stay ahead of the game and succeed - otherwise you'll get so far behind you may have difficulty catching up.

Need Help Overcoming Procrastination?

Overcoming Procrastination is CRITICAL if you want to stay ahead of the game and succeed - otherwise you'll get so far behind you may have difficulty catching up.

Overcoming Procrastination will help you avoid THIS situation!

Do you every feel like you need help overcoming procrastination? If so, you are DEFINITELY not alone!

Please believe me when I tell you that this particular little demon has been one that I have extensive personal experience with. 🙂 My dad has also admitted to me that he procrastinates. Sometimes we joke around about it, “Never put off today what you can put off tomorrow,” or, “Seize the day, tomorrow.”

I love the tagline at www.Procrastinators.org – “Productivity is Overrated.”

But while overcoming procrastination may not be a serious issue for some – it is practically crippling for others.

Especially for those who need to produce results on deadlines, for anyone who has to reach sales or productivity quotas, for students who need to finish their homework, for the parent who promised to bake cookies for the school event, for those who are self employed … you get the idea. It can be an obstacle for just about anyone.

Sometimes, it doesn’t really seem like procrastination is all that harmful (especially when people joke about it so much…).

But consider, for a moment, being the parents who put off baking the cookies for their kids’ school event. What kind of message are the parents sending the kids?

Or, how about the self-employed entrepreneur? If you happen to be self-employed – whether it’s in a bricks and mortar business or in an internet based marketing business – you may have heard the old saying:
“The great thing about being self-employed is that no one tells you what to do. The bad thing about being self-employed is that no one tells you what to do.”

So, as it turns out, overcoming procrastination is actually rather important, isn’t it?

Again, I’m not saying that the occasional bout is anything to worry about – but if it starts getting in the way of seeing positive results in your life, guess what? Then it’s a problem or obstacle that needs to be addressed.

I came up with a couple of ideas about overcoming procrastination, and I have posted the article right here on my blog!

This is a technique I have used myself (Remember… I have needed to really work on overcoming procrastination myself !)

Have a look here => Overcoming Procrastination – An Important Key to Your Success

As always, I would love to hear YOUR ideas!

Good Personal Development Skill and Habit-Our Morning Lemon Water

Personal Development Skills and Habits

Good Personal Development Skill and Habit-Our Morning Lemon Water

One of our own healthy personal development skills and habits includes a daily dose of lemon water-First Thing!

I sometimes think we acquire certain personal development skills and habits in such subtle ways that we don’t always remember WHEN we began using them – WHERE we learned them, and HOW we knew that they were important to our personal growth to begin with!

The idea of writing about personal development skills and habits we have acquired came to me this morning as I found myself thinking about a daily ritual I have.

Well, actually, I have a LOT of daily rituals – but this one always stands out, because it is one of the very first things I do every morning without fail.

When I rise, I go to the kitchen, cut open a lemon and ream the whole thing – juice AND pulp – and add a full glass of water. Drinking that full 10 – 12 ounce glass of lemon water (unsweetened) is the first thing that I do every day.

I began thinking about this activity, and why I do it:

  • It is fresh citrus – so that’s a nice refreshing addition to the diet right there.
  • It makes me feel like I’ve done something good for me straight away, before any other activities of the day crowd my plate.

But first, I have to say that I cannot think of one single area of my own life where I am not consciously working on improvement.

And I realize that this is part of my life’s work which will continue until the time comes when I leave this earth.

That’s because it is a task that can never be completed. If I’m not acquiring  actual personal development skills – then I’m certainly working on creating good habits and routines that lead to further self growth!

Some of the practices and activities that I introduced into my own life have become wonderful habits and routines as a result!

…habits and routines that I just KNOW contribute to my overall well-being.

Getting back to my daily morning lemon water:
 I can honestly count on one hand the number of days over the last 12 – 15 years where I have NOT begun my day with this drink!

Somewhere along the line (but I cannot remember when or where), I read that this was good for the body. I then discovered that it felt wonderful to have this first thing in the morning. So, I continued it and still do – to this day.

Sometimes we’ll add orange to the mix, but we ALWAYS have the lemon!

I don’t even think about it any more (except when we’re running low on lemons and we have to go buy another bag…)

Another thing that I do every single day is meditate/pray and review certain affirmations. It was a learned skill – and now I do it without thinking.

Another one of my Personal Development Skills and Habits: I meditate and/or pray every day - most of the day.

Another Personal Development Skills and Habits: I meditate and or pray every day – most of the day.

That’s just the start. The many things that I do each day were NOT the result of one single “ah ha” moment – or some drastic decision or action on my part.

I do know that I am continually looking for additional good habits to further improve my life.

I want to hear from YOU!
What I would like to know now is what YOU began to do as part of your own path that has since become a happy and healthy habit. Would you be willing to share your thoughts and experiences?

I hope so! Please leave your ideas and thoughts below so we can compare notes and learn from one another!

PPS: I’ll be adding articles pertaining to personal development skills and habits as I continue to build the site – and will post articles here at my Healthy Living Tips page, as well as at my Life Strategies for Success page (among other pages that I think up as I go along!) 🙂 Thanks for reading!

This exercise is based on Part 8 of Charles Haanel's The Master Key System

An Exercise Inspired by Charles F. Haanel and his Master Key System

This exercise is based on Part 8 of Charles Haanel's The Master Key System

This exercise is based on Part 8 of Charles Haanel’s The Master Key System

If you are a member of my Self Development Strategies newsletter, you may recognize the information in the following post from one of my newsletters.

The inspiration for this topic comes from Part 8 of Charles F. Haanel’s famous The Master Key System – an early self-development correspondence course from around 1917 or so.

First of all, let me say how much I enjoy the The Master Key System. I learned about it some years ago when I was initially beginning my own now-passionate journey of personal development. I got to know the work of Tony Michalski over at Kallisti Publishing, and he is truly one of today’s best known experts on Mr. Haanel’s work.

Anyway, this is an excellent visualization exercise that I would like to share with you, in hopes that it offers a little inspiration and motivation to keep moving forward.

Right now, you are currently sitting at a computer, reading this post.

Have a quick look around the room where you are sitting, and pick out an object – anything will do. A book, perhaps. Or a chair, or table – maybe even your very computer.

Now, take that object, and trace it back in time from where it is now – all the way back to its origin.

For example, the chair in the room came from a store. But before it was at the store, it was in a delivery truck. Before then, it was being painted or upholstered at the factory…

Before then, it was being pieced together… etc. Finally, it was pieces of wood, shaped from a tree which had been trucked over to the lumber mill…

Do you see how this progresses?

Finally, before that, there was a plan that had perhaps been rendered by a draftsman or furniture designer…

And finally, we get to the designer him or herself. He or she had an IDEA in mind – a thought – one way or another about a chair that would look just like the one that currently sits in your room.

The THOUGHT preceded the resulting ITEM, did it not? Someone had to first think about a chair before the chair could be produced.

It is the same with everything. EVERYTHING begins in thought – an idea. The things you are working toward – all your dreams, your goals, your objectives – all these things had to begin with a THOUGHT.

This is why thinking about what you WANT to attain (versus what you do NOT want in your life) is so critical.

This is why we emphasize getting clear about what you want to begin with. Otherwise, if you do not (or if you think only about what you do NOT want), it will be very difficult for you to take action steps toward making those goals come to pass.

And action, as we know, is how we move forward.

So, use this exercise in your own process. Think about some of the wonderful things you have already accomplished in your life, and race the results back to their origin – where they first crossed your mind to begin with.

This should give you the inspiration and faith to know that your current goals and objectives have an exciting journey ahead towards their fulfilment.

By the way: Here is a page on some categories for personal goals and motivation, if you’d like to “nudge” your brain a bit. 🙂

A little more about The Master Key System: I think that one of the reasons I enjoy Mr. Haanel’s instruction so much is that there is no “fluff” surrounding it. He is showing us how to use our minds, our imagination, and our abilities to concentrate in a concrete, step-by-step way.

If you are serious – REALLY serious about learning how to focus and use your power of concentration effectively, then I urge you to have a serious look – you can find The Master Key System at Amazon. I use a lot of personal development tools – and this is, by far, one of my favorites. Tell Tony I say hi! 🙂

PS: If, for some reason, you have not yet bought a copy of my Goal Planning Strategies Guide and newsletter, please visit my Self Development Strategies site! If you decide to buy it, I thank you!

PPS: If you would like to read another article inspired by Charles F. Haanel, here is the link => On Giving and Receiving – Inspired by Charles F. Haanel.

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